We often start our relationships with a lot of passion and love and with high hopes of staying connected and intimate for a lifetime.
However, that seldom happens.
As we go on and as the initial “honeymoon phase” dies, things start to change. Your partner’s flaws become more visible and more irritating. The things that you once used to overlook become more bold. All of a sudden you feel like your needs aren’t being met, or they’re not being met the way you want.
That’s when the whole energy of the relationship shifts and loses its balance.
But I’m sure you know that having an amazing relationship doesn't come naturally. It actually NEVER happens naturally. Relationships take a lot of work and effort. They require taking consistent actions towards strengthening strengthening your connection and consciously becoming closer.
The good news is that you’re THE ONLY ONE who is needed to make a change in your relationship. It’s easy to sit back, blame your partner and wait for them to change, but that’s the recipe for failure...
When the initial excitement is over and reality hits, that’s when you need to step up and put energy and effort into making your relationship more connected and more passionate. That’s when you need the skills and the training to balance your relationship and turn it into a long-lasting, deeply connected one. Everyone knows how to have a great relationship at the start...but not too many people know how to deepen their connection as time goes on.